Managers, you gotta get in “the gray!”

Congratulations — you’ve been promoted!  You have a new title that includes the word “Manager.”  Or maybe you’re fancy and have a Director or VP title.  It’s gratifying that your hard work is being recognized so you can fast-track the climb of the proverbial corporate ladder.

Regardless of your title, when you step into a role with the responsibility of managing others, your job now splits into TWO jobs.  You have your own position’s deadlines and accountabilities and now you’re responsible for supporting a team.  Supporting a team means mentoring, assisting, disciplining and basically being a work-parent to folks who will be looking to you for guidance.

Everyone who works for you is different and by different, I don’t necessarily mean their jobs — I mean as humans.  That means they’ll work differently, communicate in their own style, have different stresses and have overall needs.  Just like you.

The first time you have an employee issue, provided it’s not an illegal one, please don’t run for the employee handbook.  I also don’t recommend going to your HR professional unless you’re sure they’re the anti policy-police type of individual.  It’s embarrassing to the profession but I’ve met my share of HR folks who aren’t capable of creative thinking and expect employees to behave like little corporate soldiers regardless of how their lives are going outside of the office.

Every single employee issue is unique and issues should be treated that way too.  Take the time to listen to your team member and instead of seeing the solution as either black or white ask yourself,

“How can we reach a mutually beneficial solution and how would I want to be treated if I was the one in this situation?”

It’s not always a fast process and it may not be the easiest path but the payoff will teach you empathy, creative thinking and problem solving.  Facing problems and working towards solutions related to humans are never black or white.  It’s okay to get in the gray.  In fact, get comfortable with the gray so that it comes naturally, as a part of your work style.

I’m not saying to embrace slackers.  I’m not encouraging you jump through hoops when a situation turns into abuse.  I’m saying that being able to jump into the gray areas and treat each situation as unique as it is without applying a canned solution will provide you with long-term rewards.

You’re a real problem solver.  You’ll be an excellent leader.  You’ll be remembered.  You’ll have loyalty.


Burn the annual performance appraisal (3 of 3)

This is the final post, 3 of 3 about why companies should eliminate the traditional annual performance review, what the alternatives are and how to do it successfully.

We talked about why annual performance reviews are destructive and how to do them right when we start doing them more frequently.  Do you know the sure fire way for performance reviews to be objective?

Well it’s not the traditional form that managers complete.  Being objective on traditional performance review forms is not possible, period.  Think about some of the categories on your performance review form?  You’ll see categories like “initiative” and “adaptability”.  Just exactly how do we speak about these topics objectively?

You can’t.  You can’t because what you think the meaning of initiative and adaptability may not be what others think.  You may have an employee who thinks that getting out of bed is a huge step in taking initiative!  Objectivity and human nature often cancel each other out.

Here’s where old school is really new school.  Remember our old friend SMART goals?  That’s really the magic bullet for objectivity.

When we’re not basing our evaluation on the completion of agreed upon goals, bad things can happen.  Here’s a story for you:

I worked with a manager named Bob.  He had a team of 5 and became a manager due to what I like to call “battlefield promotion” which is when his manager resigned, Bob had the most seniority so boom! — Bob gets to be manager.

Bob was happy with his new gig and had a great relationship with his team from working with them and figured that would give him an edge.  Let’s fast forward to review time.

He has Joe working for him who hasn’t quite been making it happen.  Bob’s running interference between the others on his team and Joe because everyone else has been picking up Joe’s slack.  Well since Bob is buds with Joe, he also knows that Joe is having some financial stress and personal issues at home.  He doesn’t want Joe’s review to reflect a poor salary increase so Bob starts to pick up Joe’s slack…

Now this is a total lose-lose situation.  We have Joe who is losing by not having productive and frequent sit downs to have an opportunity to turn his performance around…we have Bob who’s losing because he’s doing his own job, and covering for Joe.  The rest of the team is losing because they’re having to work their tails off to pick up the slack.  That’s a big mess that could have been avoided had Bob and Joe agreed to objective goals and had frequent discussions about Joe’s progress against those goals.

Another bad thing that can happen is what I call the sin of recency.  Maybe you’ve seen this happen:

A few months before it’s time for the performance review, employees who might normally be average will kick it into high gear all of a sudden because they know their manager isn’t going to remember those blunders from 8 months ago.  And it’s a fact that managers will only retain a few months back of memory … So what’s recent is evaluated, and what’s less recent is forgotten.

This is frustrating and demoralizing for employees, and helps even more to make the performance review process completely worthless for everyone.

Then, one more twist…

When you link the annual performance review discussion with the discussion about pay increases, which, in the employee’s mind is:  “do I get a raise and how much”, then neither of those conversations will have the impact they should.

But when you have frequent conversations all year long, based on how the employee is doing against an agreed upon set of goals, then you can have the compensation discussion all by itself, and since the employee already knows how they’ve been doing, it’s a much smoother and productive conversation.

Apply this to your organization.  If you  have a “once a year” performance appraisal system:

  • How can you incorporate goal setting and more frequent performance discussions?
  • Who would you have to influence?  What kind of training and development would your managers need?
  • How could you ensure that this is a culture shift, and not just a “flavor of the month new program”?
  • How can you skill your managers to depersonalize the conversations?
  • How can you unlink the performance and compensation conversations?

I hope that these posts have given you food for thought.  Providing feedback to our employees is essential.  But not if we’re not doing it right.  Doing it right is a relative term — it’s what’s best for your organization — not for all organizations.

Would you like to learn how you can implement an effective performance management program in your company?  Let’s talk!

 

 

 


Burn the annual performance appraisal (1 of 3)

This is a 3-part post.  I’m going to share why the annual  performance review process needs to go away forever and what should be done instead.  I’ll also share how to do it right and be objective — what a concept!  I hope you enjoy it.

It’s 3 pm on a Thursday afternoon and Andrea goes into her manager’s office for her annual performance review that she’s been dreading it all week.  She knows the drill — her manager will ask her to read the evaluation form he completed and then he’ll finally get around to telling her what she really wants to know — which is how much her raise is.

She leaves frustrated just like every year.  She doesn’t think her manager has any idea of what she’d contributed all year, so how could he have accurately rated it?  Of course she’ll wait another year to discuss her performance – that is unless she screws something up – then she’ll definitely hear about that! Read more